Nowadays, there are many ways to support the elderly in society, such as wife, new partner, children, relatives, nannies, organizations, society, etc. But fundamentally, you still have to rely on yourself to support yourself!
If you always rely on others for your retirement, you will not feel safe. Because no matter whether it is your children, relatives, or friends, they will not always be with you. When you have difficulties, they will not appear anytime and anywhere to help you solve it.
In fact, everyone is an independent individual and has his own life to live. You cannot ask others to rely on you all the time, and others cannot put themselves in your shoes to help you.
Old, we are already old! It’s just that we are in good health and have a clear mind now. Who can we expect when we are old? It needs to be discussed in several stages.
The first stage: 60-70 years old
After retirement, when you are sixty to seventy years old, your health will be relatively good, and your conditions may permit. Eat a little if you like, wear a little if you like, and play a little if you like.
Stop being hard on yourself, your days are numbered, take advantage of it. Keep some money, keep the house, and arrange your own escape routes.
The second stage: no illness after the age of 70
After the age of seventy, you are free from disasters, and can still take care of yourself. This is not a big problem, but you must know that you are really old. Gradually, your physical strength and energy will be exhausted, and your reactions will become worse and worse. When eating, Walk slowly to prevent choking, falling. Stop being so stubborn and take care of yourself!
Some even take care of the third generation for a lifetime. It’s time to be selfish and take care of yourself. Take it easy on everything, help with the cleaning, and keep yourself healthy for as long as possible. Give yourself as much time as possible to live independently. It will be easier to live without asking for help.
The third stage: getting sick after the age of 70
This is the last period of life and there is nothing to be afraid of. If you are prepared in advance, you won’t be too sad.
Either enter a nursing home or use someone to care for the elderly at home. There will always be a way to do it within your ability and as appropriate. The principle is not to burden your children or add too much burden to your children psychologically, housework, and financially.
The fourth stage: the last stage of life
When your mind is clear, your body is suffering from incurable diseases, and your quality of life is extremely poor, you must dare to face death and resolutely do not want family members to rescue you anymore, and do not want relatives and friends to make unnecessary waste.
From this we can see, who do people look to when they grow old? Oneself, oneself, oneself.
As the saying goes, "If you have financial management, you will not be poor, if you have a plan, you will not be chaotic, and if you are prepared, you will not be busy." As a reserve army for the elderly, are we prepared? As long as you make preparations in advance, you won’t have to worry about your life in old age in the future.
We must rely on ourselves to support our old age and say loudly: I have the final say in my old age!
Post time: Mar-12-2024
